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I happen to live in Los Angeles — where being over a size 8 is a felony.

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This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the "norm" a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself that the average dress size for women across America and the UK is a size 14 and that a size 2 is more an aberration than the norm.

This size stereotyping, especially in metropolitan cities like Los Angeles and New York City, can compound the list of reasons why single "plus-size" women are intimidated by dating and sex. Some people find the term to be incredibly empowering, while for other women, calling themselves a BBW is a form of body positivity. However, not everyone is on the same about whether or not the term is appropriate. If you're sexually active with someone who you think falls into the BBW category, it might be a good idea to check in with how they feel about that term before surprising them with it.

Asking why men like BBW men who love bbw like asking why people like ice cream. People just like what they like because they like it. Sometimes, it isn't constructive to psychoanalyze why people are attracted to certain body types or features. Fat people are beautiful, hot and sexy — it's no wonder men would find them attractive. And remember that attraction doesn't have to be rigid; men date big women and thin women.

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A lot of fat people are discriminated against for their size, and singles deserve to find love no matter what. For some, using dating sites like this can help people avoid jerks who have deluded themselves into thinking that size determines physical attractiveness. Because no matter the size, women deserve to be treated like the beautiful women they are. When I suggest online dating, taking a class, or going to events to meet a guy, I almost universally hear "maybe when I lose some weight" as the first excuse not to engage. It seems that no matter what we look like, women are always the first to dissuade themselves from dating because they perceive their weight as a "physical shortcoming.

Women of all shapes and sizes do it. When I made the decision to start dating again after my divorce, I had to examine my history with my body image. Photo: Nick Holmes. In addition, the unconscious conditioning I received from my well-meaning mother set me up to fail. I thought about all the women this kind of conditioning effects, as most women struggle with their body image, regardless of body type. It was interesting to men who love bbw that regardless of size, all the women I knew loathed portions, if not all, of their bodies. Not only does this affect the quality of life in general, it substantially affects a healthy sex life.

Rebecca Jane Weinstein, lawyer, social worker, and author, was told by her grandmother at nine years old that no man would ever love her because she was fat. So Ms. Weinstein started her journey of figuring out her womanhood on her own. I asked Ms. Weinstein what her advice would be to plus-sized women who are trying to feel more confident sexually.

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Here is her answer:. When a woman feels sexy, she projects sexy, and men or other women find her sexy. This seems almost simplistic, and it is, in a sense. Perception is everything, particularly self-perception. What is not simplistic is coming to that realization and then internalizing those feelings. First is personality. Some of us are just lucky to have an inner core of confidence that has no clear genesis. It just exists. The key is listening and believing when you are told you are attractive and that someone is attracted to you.

We must overcome that disbelief. It is not easy when all the societal messages tell us fat is not sexy. But those messages come from disreputable sources — mostly people trying to sell us stuff. They want us to feel badly about ourselves so we will buy diets and cosmetics and clothing and medical procedures. Those people are liars. The ones telling us the truth are sharing our beds and our hearts. It is them we must believe. And the truth is, even if there is no one giving those positive messages, men who love bbw ourselves works too. When you feel sexy, you project sexy, and others find you sexy.

I had a lover once with whom I had some of the most erotic, connected, exciting and sensual sex of my lifeand I was considered plus-sized at the time. Before our first tryst, I panicked about how he would react to actually seeing me naked. Would he still want me when he saw my overflowing stomach and flabby thighs? I was terrified. He continued to sincerely voice how attracted to me he was, yet I kept that nightie on for two months until I believed he was really yearning for me.

For me, his answer was revolutionary. My lover explained that body shape or size had nothing at all to do with his attraction to a woman. He said that when a woman felt she was a sensual being and was confident about her sexuality, it drove him wild. If I were just able to let go and take in that he was having sex with me because he wanted to and was attracted to me, I would have enjoyed myself so much more! The change needed to start with me. I needed to give myself a break.

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If it was true that he found me physically attractivethen it was equally true that other men would as well. Again, the unrealistic body dysmorphia rears its ugly head no matter what you look like. The next step would be to start to become more comfortable in your body sexually as it is right now.

Her book will feed you stories of women and men who feel the same or worse about their bodies and will inspire you. Reading the stories of how others achieved their positive body image and started enjoying sex will help you get used to the notion that there are other people out there perhaps even larger than you are who have found their inner sex gods and goddesses.

Another validating website to check out is I Feel Myselfwhich features women from all over the world masturbating to orgasm. Your sexuality is part of who you are as a woman and human being and the plus-sized woman should take steps to start empowering herself as an erotic, sexual being. Every woman should, really.

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Ignore the messages from the people, agencies, and corporations trying to make you feel "less than" and take back control of what is inherently yours. Chase is also the creator of the award-winning feminist sensual images blog LadyCheeky.

This article was originally published at Smut for Smarties. Reprinted with permission from the author. in. YourTango Experts. Photo: getty. Elle Chase, ACS. Subscribe to our newsletter. now for YourTango's trending articlestop expert advice and personal horoscopes delivered straight to your inbox each morning. up now!

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